What does it mean to be lesbian, gay, or bisexual?
Lesbian, gay, and bisexual are terms that describe a person’s sexual orientation. This is a person’s emotional, romantic, or sexual attraction to other people:
• “Gay” means you are attracted to people of the same sex.
• “Straight” means you are attracted to people of the opposite sex.
• “Lesbian” means you are a female who is attracted to other females.
• “Bisexual” means you are attracted to people of both sexes.
“LGBTQ” is an abbreviation for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer. The “Q” also can stand for questioning.
What is gender identity?
Gender identity is your sense of being male, female, or somewhere in between. This identity may or may not correspond to the sex you were assigned at birth. Gender identity is not the same thing as sexual orientation.
What does transgender mean?
Most people are told they are a boy or a girl (male or female) based on the genitals they were born with. This is the sex you are assigned at birth. For some people, that male or female label may not feel right.
Someone born female may feel that they are really a male, and someone born male may feel that they are really a female. People who feel this way are called transgender. Others may feel that they belong to neither gender or to both genders. People who feel this way sometimes identify as “gender nonbinary,” “gender fluid,” or “genderqueer.” Some other terms may include androgynous, agender, gender neutral, and gender nonconforming.
What steps do people take to express gender?
The ways people express their gender can vary. Some people who are transgender decide to change how they dress. Some choose to change their name and preferred pronouns. Some choose to take hormones or have surgery so that their bodies more closely match their gender identity. Others do not. There is no “right” way to be a transgender person.
What does cisgender mean?
Cisgender means that your gender identity matches the sex you were assigned at birth.
What does queer mean?
Queer is sometimes used to describe a fluid gender identity. In the past, this was a negative term for people who are gay. Now, queer is used by some people to describe themselves, their community, or both in a positive way.
What does questioning mean?
Questioning means you are exploring your sexual orientation, gender identity, or gender expression.
What makes a person straight, lesbian, gay, bisexual, or questioning?
It’s not known for certain what determines a person’s sexual orientation. Who a person has sex with doesn’t determine their sexual orientation. Many adults and teens have never had sex with a person of the same sex but still identify as gay.
When does a person know their gender identity?
Some teens may question their gender identity for the first time during puberty. But most people have a steady sense of their gender starting very early in life, by about age 4 years. Many people have felt the same way about their gender identity since they were little or for as long as they can remember. If you are confused about your gender identity, find support by talking with someone you trust, such as your doctor or other health care professional.
What are some concerns that LGBTQ people may face at home, at school, and in the community?
Many communities accept LGBTQ people without bias. But some communities do not. For adults and teens, hate crimes, job discrimination, and housing discrimination can be serious problems. For teens, bullying in school also can be a problem. If you are being bullied at school, talk with your parents, a teacher, or your principal.
Teens who do not feel supported by adults are more likely to be depressed. Some LGBTQ teens cope with these thoughts and feelings in harmful ways. They may try to hurt themselves. They may turn to drugs and alcohol. Some skip school or drop out. Some run away from home. Lesbian or bisexual girls may be more likely to smoke or have eating disorders.
If you need help, try to find support by talking with someone you trust, such as your doctor or other health care professional.
Should I tell my parents that I am LGBTQ?
Some parents are open and accepting. Others may not understand what it means to be lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, questioning, or queer. Some parents may believe stereotypes about LGBTQ people. Telling your parents can be big decision. Help and support are out there if you need it. See the “Resources” section for help educating parents, family members, and friends about the LGBTQ community.
What can I do if I want to talk with someone other than my parents?
If you don’t want to talk with your parents, you can talk with a teacher, counselor, doctor, or other health care professional. It’s a good idea to ask about what can be kept private before you talk to a professional.
Who is at risk of sexually transmitted infections?
All teens who are sexually active are at risk of getting a sexually transmitted infection (STI). Barrier methods (condoms, dental dams, and gloves) can be used to prevent STIs.
Girls who have sex with girls can get STIs. Many STIs can be passed from one partner to another through oral sex. These STIs include human immunodeficiency virus (HIV), human papillomavirus (HPV), genital herpes, syphilis, gonorrhea, and chlamydia.
Some STIs (HPV and genital herpes) can be transmitted through skin-to-skin contact. HPV also may be spread by genital-to-finger contact.
Who is at risk of pregnancy?
If you have female reproductive organs and have sex with someone with male reproductive organs, you can get pregnant. All teens who are sexually active and want to prevent pregnancy need to use birth control.
Condoms give the best protection against STIs, but they are not the best protection against pregnancy. It is best to use condoms and another method of birth control, such as an intrauterine device (IUD), birth control pills, or a birth control implant, to protect against pregnancy and STIs.
What is safe sex?
The only definite way to prevent STIs is to not have oral, anal, or vaginal sex. If you are sexually active, you should practice safe sex to help protect yourself and your partner against STIs. You should practice safe sex whether your partner is male or female.
Safe sex means:
• Talking about safe sex before having sexual contact with a partner.
• Not mixing sex with the use of drugs or alcohol.
• Using a barrier method (condoms, dental dams, or gloves) when touching another person’s genitals with your genitals, fingers, mouth, or a sex toy.
• Avoiding getting menstrual blood or semen into cuts or sores.
• Using a male condom to cover sex toys before use. Clean sex toys before and after use.
If you think you may have an STI or have had sexual contact that may have put you at risk, you should be tested for STIs. Even if you do not think you are at risk, your doctor or other health care professional may screen you for gonorrhea and chlamydia if you are sexually active.
Glossary :-
Barrier Method: Birth control that stops sperm from entering the uterus, such as condoms.
Birth Control: Devices or medications used to prevent pregnancy.
Bisexual: Being attracted to members of both sexes.
Cervical Cancer: A type of cancer that is in the cervix, the opening to the uterus at the top of the vagina.
Chlamydia: A sexually transmitted infection caused by bacteria. This infection can lead to pelvic inflammatory disease and infertility.
Cisgender: A term for someone who identifies as the sex that he or she was assigned at birth.
Gender Identity: A person’s sense of being male, female, or somewhere in between. This identity may or may not correspond to the sex assigned at birth.
Genital Herpes: A sexually transmitted infection (STI) caused by a virus. Herpes causes painful, highly infectious sores on or around the vulva and penis.
Gonorrhea: A sexually transmitted infection that may lead to pelvic inflammatory disease, infertility, and arthritis.
Hormones: Substances made in the body that control the function of cells or organs.
Human Immunodeficiency Virus (HIV): A virus that attacks certain cells of the body’s immune system. If left untreated, HIV can cause acquired immunodeficiency syndrome (AIDS).
Human Papillomavirus (HPV): The name for a group of related viruses, some of which cause genital warts and some of which are linked to cancer of the cervix, vulva, vagina, penis, anus, mouth, and throat.
Lesbian: A woman who is attracted to other women.
Menstrual Period: The monthly shedding of blood and tissue from the uterus.
Pap Test: A test in which cells are taken from the cervix (or vagina) to look for signs of cancer.
Pelvic Exam: A physical examination of a woman’s reproductive organs.
Puberty: The stage of life when the reproductive organs start to function and other sex features develop. For women, this is the time when menstrual periods start and the breasts develop.
Queer: A term sometimes used to describe a fluid gender identity. In the past, this was a negative term for people who are gay. But now, queer is used by some people to describe themselves, their community, or both in a positive way. Typically used when self-identifying or quoting someone who self-identifies as queer.
Questioning: A term used to describe people who are exploring their sexual orientation, gender identity, or gender expression.
Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs): Infections that are spread by sexual contact.
Sexual Orientation: Emotional, romantic, or sexual attraction to other people. Examples include heterosexual, homosexual, and bisexual.
Syphilis: A sexually transmitted infection (STI) that is caused by an organism called Treponema pallidum. This infection may cause major health problems or death in its later stages.
Transgender: A person whose gender identity differs from the sex they were assigned at birth.
REFERANCES:-
GLMA
http://www.glma.org
Medical associations of LGBTQ health care professionals. Provides a directory of LGBTQ-friendly health care professionals.
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